This man does not pay child support or alimony as ordered by the court. He only pays me a few hundred dollars to cover the phone bill and car insurance. De he is self employed and these days he’s rather spend his money on himself. He’s self-employed and I have no money to take him to court. I constantly have to tell my 9 and 11 year old how we don’t have money to buy them things. We don’t even have TV.